...our nashville wedding ceremony location...

My list of criteria for our ceremony location is short:
  • A church pretty enough on its own to require little decorating
  • Good acoustics to showcase our (my) music selections
  • Relative proximity to our reception site
  • Lots of natural light
A friend told us about Edgefield Baptist Church in East Nashville.
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This historic church was built in 1906.  It has gorgeous dark wood and huge stained glass windows throughout the sanctuary.  These pictures don't really do it justice at all.


affordable

beautiful
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DG and I have looked into a lot of other churches for our ceremony, but none of them really suited us.  Either the cost didn't fit into our budget, or the room was too big for our guest list, or the rules were too strict.  It was always something.  It just so happens that Edgefield was both our favorite and least expensive of all the churches we've seen.  There's only one hang up.  Being non-members of the church, we are not allowed to reserve our date more than six months prior to our wedding day.  Granted, our six month mark is only four days away at this point, but because of this strict policy, the church has not yet officially confirmed that our date is available.  We do have a back up plan in mind, but I will be really disappointed if this doesn't work out. I'm hoping to hear back from the church staff this week with some final word.  Assuming that works out, we'll have another big peice of the puzzle in place.  Cross your fingers!

…wedding details…


I had one of those moments this weekend when you feel like there's absolutely no way in the world you'll stretch the money far enough. For the first time, I was really taken back at the difference between what we'd budgeted and we'd been asked to pay. I cried. I find that this wedding thing is hard to navigate sometimes. The media is completely saturated with giant, lavish, EXPENSIVE wedding images, and one can very quickly start to get discouraged as what once seemed like a very generous amount of money begins to feel smaller and smaller. Even so, DG and I are extremely blessed to be as fortunate as we are. There are countless couples who would kill to have the kind of budget we have established. I certainly don't ever want to lose sight of that. But I still catch myself going back and forth. On the one hand, I want this day to be everything we've dreamed about. We're only doing this once and we want to do it right. But at the same time, when I look at a $9,000 wedding budget and feel like it's not enough, there is a problem I need to address within myself. It's not that we couldn't come up with a way to pay for more. We could. But at what point do you draw the line? For us, it's been drawn…and we will simply rely on our resources and creativity and the generosity of our talented friends and family to fill in the gap. Our wedding day will surely be the best and most exciting day of my life thus far, but in the end, it is only one day. And what matters is that at the end of that blessed day, DG and I walk into the ever after united as one. All the money in the world can't produce that sort of satisfaction.

Ok, enough seriousness!

Here's the good stuff:
In the midst of a crazy weekend, DG and I spent most of our Saturday browsing the Flea Market at the TN State Fairgrounds. With eyes open for wedding décor ideas and such, we found and purchased our first major thematic detail. To continue our lock and key theme, each of our escort cards going into the reception will be attached to one of these little gems….



And I think I may use this tiny padlock on my bouquet...


Oh, and I had to showcase this key, with the face, who is my favorite…


We spent a total of $80 on this assortment of antique keys. Considering that most of them started at $4 each and we purchased something like 120 of them, I'd call that a steal! It is a bit of a splurge for me, but this is one detail that every guest will see and touch and hold. Thank you, flea market! Can't wait to go back for more treasures in November!

…honeymoon…


There is one aspect of our planning where DG and I wasted no time. That would be the honeymoon. My parents have been so kind as to give us a week of their time share (A wonderful gift!), so we knew that we would be lucky enough to go somewhere really great and stay within our budget. We've budgeted $3500 for our entire trip, and after having booked the resort and our flights, we've spent only $988.52. I'd say we're doing pretty good so far. We will still have to pay the all-inclusive fee at the resort, but I feel like we are saving money in long run.

As of sometime on the afternoon of May 2, 2010, I'll be arriving here…the Eldorado Seaside Suites in Mexico's Riviera Maya
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This adults only, all-inclusive resort boasts seven gourmet restaurants and a jacuzzi in each room.
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Plus private beach beds.
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What more could a honeymooner hope for???  I can't wait to relax and unwind on the beach.  I know that by May we'll both be in desparate need of a vacation.  There are still some more details to put in place, but I feel good knowing that we've at least booked the room and the flight! 

(All images from Karisima Hotels and Resorts)

…save the dates…


So, I fall hard for good ideas. Mine are typically the brain child of the many inspirations from those who've gone before me and already done it well. Call me a copy cat if you like. I think I'm just well informed...and the product of my creative predecessors. J Thus the concept for our save the dates. Long ago I stumbled upon this ingenious wedding invitation via A $10,000 wedding.  Bless you, Matt Dorfman, for reaching out your hand to pull us from our engraving and thermography box.
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Pretty sure most of you cyber-brides have seen this by now, as it's been circulating for quite some time. I think it's genius. DG and I both love the idea of something so personal, so in the days to come, it is my quest to write up our story in a similar fashion.

Wanting our first contact with our guests to be very us and very Nashville, we've decided to mimic the Hatch Show Print design we all know and love. Something a little like this guy…
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Or this guy…
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Engagement photo session coming up next weekend. Save the dates to brag about shortly thereafter. Time to get excited!

...of wedding progress and procrastination…


I've always got these really great ambitions to write about all the little thoughts that pop into my head on a daily basis, but my life seems to be moving at a faster pace than I. Here it is, another week later before I've even made it to posting again. There are moments when six months and a handful of days seems like all the time in the world…and others when I start to get that panicky feeling about whether or not we'll pull off this wonderland of a wedding we've dreamed up before the end of the millennium. Thankfully, DG is a mastermind when it comes to execution of…well, just about anything. I love that I can just do the conceptual thing and let him figure out how to make it happen. It takes so much pressure off of me, and I can't explain what a relief it is to have his help and insight and expertise in this endeavor. It makes my heart warm. J

Some really great things have happened on the wedding front while I've been silent. I bought my dress…which is precisely opposite what I thought I'd end up choosing, but it is so very, very me, and I couldn't be more excited about it. (Now it's time to get down to the business of looking as good in it as possible, but that's another topic for another day.) We have also potentially chosen a church for our ceremony, but being non-members of the congregation, we are unable to reserve it prior to six months before our wedding date. Thus, we will not have that nailed down until November 1st, but that date is quickly approaching. Barring any unforeseen circumstances, we'll have that item checked off the list very shortly.

What I'm most excited about at this moment in time is branding our wedding. That may be the left side of my brain talking there, but basically, I'm a sucker for a theme. And I intend to carry our lock and key theme all the way through the wedding. DG and I are meeting with a very talented friend this evening to discuss all of the graphic design elements of the theme. (Can I just say we are so fortunate to know and love so many talented and generous people?? Our wedding is going to be one giant collaboration of brilliance.) First up, save the dates. We're planning to have our engagement photos taken either this weekend or next, so as soon as they're finished, we plan to get our save the dates out to family and friends far and wide.

As a semi-faithful blog follower, I am constantly looking for inspiration and ideas. Thanks to my dear friend, Google Reader, there is usually a surplus of fabulous DIY ideas. I had been really uninspired with a lot of save the date ideas I'd seen, simply because they to ultimately end up in the trash…which just seems like a waste. I'd toyed with the idea of sending them completely electronically when I stumbled upon this from Mo, of Elizabeth Anne Designs. DG and I are fairly tech savvy, as are most all of our friends and at least some of our family. Virtual save the dates seemed like the perfect fit, especially considering all the beautiful functionality offered by MailChimp, which is the FREE email marketing service Mo used. Excellent news for this spreadsheet addict. Sign me up.

The more we talked about it, the more DG and I got excited about thinking outside the box. Unconventional has become yet another theme in our wedding planning. Keep people guessing. Don't conform to narrow-minded ideas of how all this should go. That's pretty much where we live. Thus! We fell in love with the idea of going completely digital. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, digital save the dates, digital invites, digital everything. It's good for the environment, it's good for my budget, and it has the potential to be ridiculously cool. I can't wait to see how it all comes together. We'll be able to relay so much more information to our guests, and it just feels like 'us'. We've heard some skeptical comments, but it's our wedding and we can do what we want. Plus, I am confident that if we do it right, people will love it.

I'll leave you with some inspiration for our monogram…

…back to your regularly scheduled programming…


I've been a bad blogger. I know. I'd apologize, but I'm pretty sure there hasn't been any major uproar. Life has been crazy. So so crazy. But the good kind. I've been busy marrying off all of my friends. This Saturday my best friend and MOH says her I-do's. I'm so happy for her. Once we get through EV's Wedding Madness 2009, I can focus once again on my very own Wedding Madness 2010. (She and I have a habit of dating things. Sounds official.) I promise to do a recap of her big day here on the blog so everyone can enjoy the wonderfulness. In the meantime, I have a growing list of things to write about, to include:
  •     Choosing our ceremony site
  •     Purchasing my dress
  •     DG's fantastical ideas for our reception
  •     Color, aesthetics, and other pretty things
  •     Bridal party attire
  •     And oh-so-much more…
For now, I leave you with the lyrics to the little ditty I wrote for EV's ceremony, which I'll be singing during the lighting of the unity candle. Maybe someday I'll get a mini custom wedding song business going. People like that sort of thing, right? This one is sort of a prayer for the couple, who are so very dear to my heart…


We're gathered here, hearts overflowing, to witness Your grace raining down
Joining hands, Love of a lifetime, One and only found
Love like this comes only from above
So Father, we are here to lift You up and pray

Fill them up with joy and laughter
Let their hearts be true to You
Give them hope in times of darkness
Bless these. We are on our knees saying
Fill this house, fill this house, fill this house with love

Boy meets girl, same old story, but we know there's more left unseen
Love of God in the eyes of another, Mercy's hands and feet
Love like this comes only from above
So Father, we are here to lift You up and pray

Fill them up with joy and laughter
Let their hearts be true to You
Give them hope in times of darkness
Bless these. We are on our knees saying
Fill this house

Forge ties that bind, unbroken
Give them strength to speak the truth
May peace be always spoken
Unite their souls in You
May their love shine like the light on darkest days

Fill them up with joy and laughter
Let their hearts be true to You
Give them hope in times of darkness
Bless these. We are on our knees saying
Fill this house, fill this house, fill this house with love

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